Wisdom in Love

We get to a certain age and we start to realize how precious time really is. For so much could be done with our time… and after countless letdowns and the ultimate disappointments, why invest time into something that isn’t worth it?! Why waste more time?! More importantly, why position yourself to get hurt, when you can avoid it?!

And honestly, I’m over the bullshit. Hence why I haven’t been on dates, I don’t do dates. I can literally look at a person, chat them up for a quick one to two, and I know. And we can vibe, but I still know… I’ll entertain, but never pursue. For two very obvious reasons: 1. I don’t have time to waste and 2. I don’t have time to waste…. haha. One being that, I have enough projects in my life, building my business and creating my livelihood. Two being that, I want love, real love no nonsense, so if I already sense any sort of adversity toward the person and/or situation, why bother?!

I’ve come to a point, I know my worth and with that I’m not going to compromise what I want, most importantly not going to compromise what I need. And so, I waited it out, never truly investing into anything, until an opportunity for something real presented itself. And I couldn’t have asked for anything better. It all happened so fast, but when you know… you know. You can’t fake something real, especially when certainty is involved.

At the end of it all, we need to be smart when it comes to the game of love, we need to be sure to protect our hearts while at the same time offering them up. We can’t conceal ourselves to the point that we limit the possibility of its opportunity. In other words, we must be willing to see what it is that is in front us, whether it be nonsense or real,  we must be in a place ready to receive regardless of outcome. Most importantly, we must be ready to accept and just allow things to flow.